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The journey is what matters

Google Maps always makes everything seem simple. It seems easy when you read the directions.ย I always feel confident that it will be a piece of cake. But, more often than not, real life ends up being more complicated than Google made it out to be.

I’m in New York, staying at a friend’s place. I came here for two reasons. First, I needed to get away from my city for a little bit and breath new air. All my friends were away and I found myself alone with nothing interesting to do. So I decided to come here visit friends and see people. Second, I had a potential job interview. Which is always good. And, third, since when do I need an excuse to go to NY? It’s New York! Enough said. ๐Ÿ™‚

So there I was, making the appointment with my possible future boss, and planning everything. The only problem is that the interview would be in Connecticut. It’s not that bad, it’s the neighbor state. And there’s a train that goes up until the city I needed to go. So it shouldn’t be that hard. Right?

Wrong. haha Apparently taking trains is too hard for me. I’ve catch the train in NY many times before. But I always went from upstate to the Grand Central Station and back. Always the same train and same line. But this time I had to change trains in the middle of the way. I thought it would be simple. The problem was that when I came out the first train, it was in a station with many different lines. I didn’t know which one to take! There wasn’t any sign indicating the right one and Google didn’t tell me either. So when the next train came I decided to ask someone working on the train. But there wasn’t anyone near me! So when the train was about to depart I had to make a decision… And, for fear of missing the right train in case it was it, I decided to stay on this train and see what happens.

As soon as the train started moving I knew I had made a mistake. I heard the voice announcing “Welcome to the the train number bla bla bla, heading to Boston, Massachussets.”

Oh. No.ย That’s NOT where I was suppose to go. I allowed myself to panic a little bit for about 5 seconds before I shook it off and went to speak with the guy working on the train. He asked to see my ticket and told me that I had made a mistake. (Really? You think??) But then, luckily for me, there was a few stops before the final destination. And – even more luckily – the next one would be only 20 mins past my original stop.

See, here’s where it pays to be cautious. I knew I was going to a place I’ve never been before. Instead of going at a time I would normally go if I knew my way, I always choose to leave home a lot earlier. I prefer to arrive early and have to wait there, at my destination, than risk making a few mistakes along the way (which I usually do) and missing important appointments or arriving late (I hate being late!). So, in this situation, I would be pissed, cause I just wasted 20 mins of my time. But in this case the glass was half-full. I had enough time to patiently wait for the 20 mins to go by and get back to where I needed to be. I even got to enjoy the ride and see new places I didn’t know! ๐Ÿ™‚

So I’ve learned many lessons in the same day. I’ve learned to better use the public transportation in the New York/Connecticut area. I’ve learned that if I ever want to go to Boston, there’s a train I can get – and it’s easy too! I’ve learned that this habit of always overestimate the time I need to get somewhere and to plan ahead is a good strategy. I’ve learned that Boston is considerably close to NY (yes, I’ve looked it up while on the train =P) and that, if I move there, it’ll be easy to go visit some friends there. Finally, I’ve learned to pay more attention to some inconspicuous signs that locals usually see and strangers take some time to learn. So now I’m much more observant of my surroundings than I used to be.

On top of that, I still got to my interview in time! It was a very pleasant interview and I’m keeping my fingers crossed.

Life is good after all. ๐Ÿ™‚


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